Prep the sauce base: In your slow cooker, stir together crushed tomatoes, tomato sauce, tomato paste, basil, oregano, optional sugar, salt, red pepper flakes, and olive oil.
Spread into an even layer.
Make the binder: Pulse rolled oats in a blender or food processor a few times until sandy. This helps create a tender texture similar to breadcrumbs.
Mix the meatball mixture: In a large bowl, combine ground turkey, pulsed oats, Parmesan, egg, onion, garlic, parsley, Italian seasoning, salt, and pepper. Add 1 tablespoon milk or broth.
Gently mix with a fork or your hands until just combined. If it feels dry, add another splash of milk.
Shape the meatballs: Scoop about 2 tablespoons per meatball and roll lightly with damp hands. Aim for 20–24 meatballs so they cook evenly.
Nestle in the sauce: Place meatballs in a single layer into the sauce, turning each one to lightly coat.
It’s fine if they touch, but avoid stacking.
Cook low and slow: Cover and cook on Low for 4–5 hours or on High for 2–3 hours, until the meatballs reach an internal temperature of 165°F (74°C) and feel firm but springy.
Taste and finish: Stir gently, then taste the sauce. Adjust salt, add a pinch of sugar if acidic, or a squeeze of lemon for brightness. Fold in fresh basil if you have it.
Serve: Spoon over pasta, zoodles, or spaghetti squash.
Top with extra Parmesan and cracked pepper. For a lighter plate, add a simple green salad on the side.